... So I did it! I went to the hairdresser and cut my hair. I said goodbye to my ombré hair and said hello to brown and now I have a fringe as well :)
2013/04/03
2013/03/13
The truth and only the truth!
Sometimes we need to take time to think about what's going on...
Take you time and read - 'cause this a must read:
Michael Baisden Commentary: Relationships: Do We Really Know What We’re Getting Into?
Recently, I shared with my listeners that I am single. In that Facebook post I stated, “I'm not at a point in my life where I am ready to share my hectic life and ever changing schedule with another person. To have a successful relationship you must be willing to make that special person a priority. Right now my career is my priority.”
The response was a reflection of how difficult it can be for people to accept honesty. Some women accused me of being afraid of commitment and making excuses for not settling down. Others said I was being selfish because I was not sharing my success. And the most humorous of all was that I’m gay. Excuse me for a second while I slap myself on the forehead…. unbelievable!!!!
So, let me get this right, if a man or woman chooses not to be in a committed relationship or get married they are either irresponsible, selfish, or gay…really? I’m going to say this loud and clear and don’t ever forget it, a relationship is a HUGE responsibility! It’s an investment of time, money, energy, emotions, and you must be accountable for your comings and goings. And that’s just the beginning.
You must also be willing to compromise and put someone else’s needs before your own. You must be willing to accept everything about them from their children to their financial situation, their habits, issues with their health, and put up with their friends and family.
But here’s the most important reality about relationships, you will be impacted by every issue your partner has experienced from birth until the day they met you, whether it’s abandonment issues, baggage from previous relationships, abuse, diseases, and bad credit.
You don’t get to pick and choose which parts of the person to love…it’s all or nothing! Relationship by definition means to connect to another human being. That means connecting to your partner’s dreams and aspirations but also to their unresolved issues.
As you mature you learn what you want, but most importantly, what you don’t want! Right now I don’t want that responsibility, not because of selfishness or fear…but because I’ve learned to take the RESPONSE-ABILITY of being in a relationship more seriously. And at this point in my life, I’m not ABLE to RESPOND to another person’s needs! Some of you can related because of your focus on your education, your children, your career, sick parents, etc.
Relationships require a lot of time and energy, especially as people become more attached, and they will…it’s only natural. No matter what people tell you about being cool with you having your space or seeing other people, once sex is added into the equation all bets are off. Next thing you know the expectations and begins and the understanding you thought you had goes right out the window. That goes for men as well as women.
My reason for writing this article is in the hopes that you will think twice before crossing the line from friendship to intimacy and intimacy to marriage. Relationships are more than having sex, going out to dinner, and holding hands strolling down the street, you’re merging lives…not just kickin’ it!
But if you’re mature and “RESPONSE-ABLE” enough to go down that road, I wish you the best. The right relationship can be fulfilling and take your life to a higher level. Just be honest with yourself about whether or not you’re ready! This is not a game; you’re messing with another person’s life! Many of us had to learn this lesson the hard way… hopefully you won’t have to.
P.S.
Share this with your friends, your partner, and your children. These are lessons I teach my daughter, lessons my father should have taught me. It would have saved me a lot of valuable time and many women a lot of heartache.
Good Night Family ~ Michael Baisden
Recently, I shared with my listeners that I am single. In that Facebook post I stated, “I'm not at a point in my life where I am ready to share my hectic life and ever changing schedule with another person. To have a successful relationship you must be willing to make that special person a priority. Right now my career is my priority.”
The response was a reflection of how difficult it can be for people to accept honesty. Some women accused me of being afraid of commitment and making excuses for not settling down. Others said I was being selfish because I was not sharing my success. And the most humorous of all was that I’m gay. Excuse me for a second while I slap myself on the forehead…. unbelievable!!!!
So, let me get this right, if a man or woman chooses not to be in a committed relationship or get married they are either irresponsible, selfish, or gay…really? I’m going to say this loud and clear and don’t ever forget it, a relationship is a HUGE responsibility! It’s an investment of time, money, energy, emotions, and you must be accountable for your comings and goings. And that’s just the beginning.
You must also be willing to compromise and put someone else’s needs before your own. You must be willing to accept everything about them from their children to their financial situation, their habits, issues with their health, and put up with their friends and family.
But here’s the most important reality about relationships, you will be impacted by every issue your partner has experienced from birth until the day they met you, whether it’s abandonment issues, baggage from previous relationships, abuse, diseases, and bad credit.
You don’t get to pick and choose which parts of the person to love…it’s all or nothing! Relationship by definition means to connect to another human being. That means connecting to your partner’s dreams and aspirations but also to their unresolved issues.
As you mature you learn what you want, but most importantly, what you don’t want! Right now I don’t want that responsibility, not because of selfishness or fear…but because I’ve learned to take the RESPONSE-ABILITY of being in a relationship more seriously. And at this point in my life, I’m not ABLE to RESPOND to another person’s needs! Some of you can related because of your focus on your education, your children, your career, sick parents, etc.
Relationships require a lot of time and energy, especially as people become more attached, and they will…it’s only natural. No matter what people tell you about being cool with you having your space or seeing other people, once sex is added into the equation all bets are off. Next thing you know the expectations and begins and the understanding you thought you had goes right out the window. That goes for men as well as women.
My reason for writing this article is in the hopes that you will think twice before crossing the line from friendship to intimacy and intimacy to marriage. Relationships are more than having sex, going out to dinner, and holding hands strolling down the street, you’re merging lives…not just kickin’ it!
But if you’re mature and “RESPONSE-ABLE” enough to go down that road, I wish you the best. The right relationship can be fulfilling and take your life to a higher level. Just be honest with yourself about whether or not you’re ready! This is not a game; you’re messing with another person’s life! Many of us had to learn this lesson the hard way… hopefully you won’t have to.
P.S.
Share this with your friends, your partner, and your children. These are lessons I teach my daughter, lessons my father should have taught me. It would have saved me a lot of valuable time and many women a lot of heartache.
Good Night Family ~ Michael Baisden
2013/03/05
Cro für H&M
Da hat H&M sich den nächsten Fisch an die Angel geholt:
Ab 04. April 2013 gibt es in ausgewählten Läden und im Online Shop eine von dem deutschen Rapper Cro entworfene Kollektion für H&M!
Eine 20-telige Divided Kollektion bestehend aus Caps, Stoffbeuteln, T-Shirts, Sweatshirts und Leggings ist das Ergebnis der Zusammenarbeit des Rap-Newcomer und der schwedischen Modefirma. Fotoprints und Illustrationen habe der Sänger selbst entworfen.
Was ich davon halte? Ich bin mir noch nicht sicher ;)
2013/02/28
In ♡ with local heroes
Street fashion, little shops, new brands - and the moment a lot of things arise!
Today, I wanna introduce to a brand from Warsaw (Poland).
I like it very much:
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| Single - Taken - Will die alone with 72 cats |
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| Single - Taken - Mentally dating Justin Bieber ;) |
Also, Rita Ora does it better in the local heroe's clothes:
It's cool, unique, funny - I love it! ♡
Love & peace ;)
Ms McChurch
2013/02/14
Bubbles in the air
I’m forever blowing bubbles. Pretty bubbles in
the air.
How does
one feel as a bubble in the air?
One is drifting in mid air, feels helpless and has no idea of what is happening…
I’m forever blowing bubbles, pretty bubbles in the air.
They fly so high and nearly reach the sky…
Then like my dreams they fade and die.
One is drifting in mid air, feels helpless and has no idea of what is happening…
I’m forever blowing bubbles, pretty bubbles in the air.
They fly so high and nearly reach the sky…
Then like my dreams they fade and die.
Why does it feel so good, but hurt so bad at the same time?
I felt rotten, but that was probably what it was all about…
I know, on one hand I want to run to you… but on the other hand I want to flee from you.
NO.
No, I won’t
get fucked by the world. I’m not a person, people lie to.
I’m disappointed. That’s not the way I want it. I have to find a way to handle that.
I’m disappointed. That’s not the way I want it. I have to find a way to handle that.
I need to
find a secure place for you, my little dream.
So, I decided to put that secret together with my dream in a safe, laid my heart next to it and then I threw the key away.
So, I decided to put that secret together with my dream in a safe, laid my heart next to it and then I threw the key away.
A lesson
learned.
Bubbles are
doomed to die.
I won’t
ever fall in love again.
2012/12/20
Life needs balance!
Oh my goodness...
I can't believe the hype that started around vintage sneakers! Finally, after seeking for weeks, I got my pair of NEW BALANCE :)
Oh mein Gott...
Es ist kaum zu glauben welch riesen Hype um die Retro Sneaker entstanden ist! Endlich, nach wochenlanger Suche haben ein Paar NEW BALANCE ihren Weg in meinen Schrank gefunden :)
Lots of hugies and kisses to you!
2012/12/17
All I want...
All I want for Christmas is...
Ob mir das Christkind wohl das bringt, was ich mir wünsche? Da wären Jeffrey Campell Schuhe, der Moschino Gürtel, u.v.m. :)
Vielleicht muss ich mir den einen oder anderen Wunsch auch selbst erfüllen, mal sehen!
Vielleicht muss ich mir den einen oder anderen Wunsch auch selbst erfüllen, mal sehen!
Was steht auf eurem Wunschzettel? :)
Eure Miss McChurch ;)
Eure Miss McChurch ;)
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